When did Prostitution become a Self-Employment Business Model for Life?
As much as I understand that Beauty is at times a Curse, and as much as I understand the need to have an income to feed yourself, clothe yourself, and keep a roof over your head, I simply am astonished on how many women have turned to Prostitution, or the Sex Industry to make a living.
We can sit here for an additional 500 Thousand Words putting forth extensive and complete Excuses and/or Reasons for said changes in the mentalities of such ladies due to our current Social & Cultural Parameters. Yet, where I’m dumbfounded is that I can’t imagine getting in my Time Machine, going back in time, and approaching these same ladies when they were in the 6th Grade, 9th Grade, 12th Grade, or even in some cases catching up to them in College, and asking them one singular question: “Would you like to be a Prostitute?”
Obviously, the responsibilities of being a Young Adult far exceed and outweigh that of a 6th Grade child, or a young adult teen in the 12th Grade, but the question remains the same. “Would you like to be a Prostitute?” I would be willing to place House Payment Money on the common answer from many of my imaginary young women turning to me with astonished repulsion, while yelling at me…”Hell No I don’t want to be a Prostitute!”
Yet here we are in 2023, and Private Prostitution is at an All-Time High.
Currently, there are about 5 to 10 methods of being a Prostitute without ever walking the Streets, like in days past, even though there are still that common level of Street Walking Prostitute out there. However, if you review this from a pragmatic perspective what you’ll actually find is that many of the methods of Prostitution have been there for an extensive period of time, or numerous years, but we may not have known of the methods because we as the public weren’t looking in that direction. Just as the old question goes: “If a tree falls in the Forest, do you hear it?” In which the answer is obviously no. However, now due to Social Media we can no longer claim not to live in that very Forest we once claimed ignorance of, as the trees fell daily. That is the difference, that is why this Newsletter/Article is being written.
Before we go any farther, yes there are Male Prostitutes & Strippers out there, but the percentage of Males in comparison to Women is miniscule to say the least, so we won’t be focusing on them in this piece.
The reality of Need and its crushing affects cannot be overlooked as we take the time to discuss this subject. I refuse to act like or pretend that the crushing impact of Need will push people to make desperate decisions that may not be morally or ethically correct. Therefore, for those of you who never missed a meal in your lifetime, or for those of you who never wanted for anything, please understand that after the age of 18 years old, in a lower income environment, you are expected to begin caring for yourself, and become less of a burden on an already stressed home environment. That is why in the past most Lower Income young men and a few women decided to go to the Military after Graduation from High School, because they knew that they could not sit on the couch at home and look their Mother or Parents in the face when they came home from work, while spending their day playing Video Games and talking shit with their friends all day long. Unfortunately, due to the impact of the Helicopter Single Mother that sentiment has shifted significantly.
However, this new Prostitute Mentality has truly emerged over the past 5 years. It can be traced back to the core Materialism that has been pushed down Society's throats from multiple directions. As we look at the advent of Reality TV, and who’s being focused on from the Kardashians currently, to the origin point of the Paris Hilton era. So long ago there was a show purely based on Materialism and Opulence called Lifestyles of the Rich & Famous which aired from March 31, 1984 to September 2, 1995 which was 11 years of mental conditioning for the youth of that period, and that conditioning was immediately seen in the Music, Television Shows, and Fashion in America from the Late 90’s through the mid 2008.
Then on September 29, 2008 the bottom fell out of everything and the Great Recession slammed America and the World, as many financial institutions went under or were saved through strategic mergers that kept them afloat. The reasons for the collapse are not necessary for this discussion, so let's move forward.
With all that took place, one thing could not be undone. Those that had become completely conditioned now based their happiness on Materialism, and were now fully weaponized to feed their addiction for Money through any means necessary.
As much as we’re prepared to say that such people immediately ran to an Illegal Means to make money, what you aren’t taking into account is that there are so many methods of Prostitution that skirt the line of being Legal or Illegal, yet it is still Prostitution in definition. The common ideal perspective of Society when it comes to prostitution is some Pimp hanging on the corner yelling obscenities at his Bitches telling them to get his Money come Hell or High Water. However, that isn’t the case at all.
Instead today you have Women Prostitutes on Tinder, Ashley Madison, Adult Friend Finder, Instagram, Tik Tok, Twitter, and even roaming around Facebook. Not to mention the Massive amounts of Porn sites that focus on Escort Services, and flat out Prostitution. For Example, on Instagram, the Code for a Prostitute can be found on their page under “Book Me”. People had been wondering how these supposed IG Models were making oddly good livings, but such lovely women were not contracted by any publication that would justify their income. In fact such IG Models have been using the term “Book Me” to pull in sexual clients this entire time charging them accordingly. Currently, Women do all this on a individual basis from the safety of their homes, With that being said, I will not add OnlyFans into the discussion, because though it is a Porn focused entertainment environment, and the participants receive money through their subscribers monthly, it cannot be called Prostitution, unless they cross over to accepting money for paid sexual encounters on top of their OnlyFans activity, which can easily be blurred, as their Prostitution activity could in fact be the entirety of their content.
With that overview of only SOME of the means through which Prostitution functions today, we now find the meat of our discussion. When did it become acceptable from a Female's perspective to do anything for income? I think I may have asked the wrong question. Why? Because Prostitution has been an element of Human existence for 10,000 years or more, and it will always exist in some form or another.
However, we can say with certainty that it is only in our current Broken Society that we are witnessing Women WILLINGLY choosing to take the course to become Prostitutes.
On April 8, 1998 an African American oriented Movie called “The Players Club” came out. The main story of this movie revolved around a lovely young female College Student who was dealing with all the associated bills and need for money which was making it close to impossible for her to continue her following semester and remain in college. Then while she was at work at a shoe store a group of Strippers came in, being loud foot-loose and fancy free. They then began looking down upon her, and mouthing off about how they could never do her job. Then they started talking to her, and told her how she could be making what she makes in a month in one night at the Strip Club. She then bites the proverbial apple, and becomes a Stripper. Obviously, then comes the highs of making so much more money that she can’t believe it was possible. Then the movie progresses to show the ugly side of how easily the Strippers end up becoming Prostitutes by going through the process of attending supposed Private Parties, which in fact are nothing more than paid sexual events in conjunction with being Stripping at the Private Party. Like most happy-ending lessons learned stories of Hollywood, the movie ends with her realizing what the reality of being a Stripper was really all about, and she then quit the business thereafter and went back to being solely a hard working College Student in the end.
Suddenly the Taboo element began to disappear soon after that movie, or it could be said that the Taboo was quelled significantly from the previous disdain that people had about being a Stripper from years past. In the following years, I encountered a Single-Mother who had two beautiful Daughters that were both Strippers. Though the Mother wasn’t proud to say her Daughters were Strippers, yet she didn’t act like they were horrible immoral heathens either. I was dumbfounded to say the least.
Let the years pass, and now look at what’s going on, from a Human level, do not use a Race nor Economic perspective, because the Sex Industry spans the full spectrum of Race & Economic backgrounds. You see, I have been able to experience the entire growth of this part of society not by being a participant, but by being at its core. Right now you’re asking how can you be at the core of the sex industry and not be a participant? Easily, I was present to see the happenings and events, along with the detailed factors of how it is put together on a cooperative level, but at no point did I partake in the events or process itself. Life is about learning through experience. One cannot say they know something truly if they have not experienced the realities of the process that creates the environment in the first place.
We then go to one element of this that moves the focus off the Women who knowingly choose to be Prostitutes, to the Men who are readily and aggressively consuming the product that such Women are offering. You see, if someone were attempting to sell apples on the corner, but no one was buying, how long do you think that apple store would remain at that corner? Obviously not very long at all. Therefore, as much as we’re saying how Immoral, Unethical, and Debaucherous such Women are…We must Equally state that very same thing for the Men that are willing to Pay a Woman for Sex as well. Correct? Yet, what can be said when our current Broken Society has created entire venues called Gentlemen's Clubs, which is nothing more than a Strip-Club, but they serve dinner & drinks and you can actually have a conversation and do light business while in a Gentlemen’s Club. This has taken away a majority of the old stigma of the “Dirty-Grimey Back-Alley Strip Club” of old.
Therefore, is it not the Men that should take the lion's share of the responsibility, who have created this environment that Women of a specific character are taking advantage of rightfully so? In many ways such an argument would be hard to discount indeed.
Yet, we’re back where we started. How is it that so many Women now look upon the Sex Industry and willingly seek to participate for an income of any sort, whether it is an additional income or a primary income?
And if we look over what has just been put forth we see the answer staring us in the face waiting for us to discover it.
Changes in Society’s Moral Acceptance of the Sex Industry.
Changes in the Need for Money versus one’s Moral & Ethical disposition.
Changes in the Ease in which an individual Woman can take the steps to be paid for Sex.
Changes in the Men that support the Sex Industry through paying said Women for Sex.
Changes in the Society that now has so many more participants in the Sex Industry that are showing off the Material Gains or Money from being in the Sex Industry, thereby gaining more Women that desire to get involved or joining the Sex Industry.
When you take two steps back and view this conclusion based on the current level of popularity of how Women are participating in the Sex Industry Willingly you almost forget about the Evil Darkside of the reality of the Sex Industry. You see, while Women in America have the freedom to make Ethical or Unethical choices and/or decisions with their lives and said professions or what they choose to do for money or a income, in other Countries it is diabolical what is done to women to get them into the Sex Industry. Yet, America is showing its true disgusting nature again as they turn a blind eye and are not putting much attention on how many young ladies ages 17 to 25 that are being kidnapped have risen significantly over the past 2-4 years, as they are being wisped away to be Sex-Slaves in Mexico or Sold overseas.
As the DEMAND for the Sex Industry continues to grow, which is directly due to the Modern American Male and Females inability to create sustainable long term relationships as they once were able to in decades past. This is due to the advent of the flawed Modern Woman now voicing her venom that eliminates her from being a suitable long term mate, leaving her only to fend for herself once she becomes a Single Mother. However the Modern Men are doing no better as they have become nearly feminine in nature due to being raised in a Single Mother or Divorced home, and no longer possessing the inner masculine fortitude to garner the attention of a woman to establish a sustainable long-term relationship. Therefore, we have now come to a Bottleneck at this point in time.
It is my final conclusion that we can no longer point at the Modern Women of this current Broken Society and say anything less negative about her than what we also would need to say about the Modern Man. Previously we used the Corner Apple Store example, and I stated that if no one was buying the Apples how long do you think it would be in business, obviously not long at all. However, it is impractical to use this example for Gentlemen’s Clubs, Strip Clubs, Prostitute Supported Websites, and Multitude of Escort options that exist from a Social Media reality.
Therefore we now are forced to see the Contradiction of the Values of America as a whole.
On one hand, we Americans’ want to view the world through a Disney/Religious pair of Rose Colored Glasses with Blinders on, and present our Society as Pure, Good, and Fair. Yet, once the Reality of the Shit hitting the Fan occurs then we see the reality of NEED, and we are forced to Swallow the Fecal Matter filled shake that has all the ugly realities the accompany the loss of the True Men from a functioning Society, which then leaves otherwise High Quality Women to scurry about Society fending for themselves in order to find some level of security in life through any means necessary.
With that being stated I believe I have my answer to the Original Question: “When did Prostitution become a Self-Employment Business Model for Life?” The Answer: When True Men were no longer around to secure and care for such Women of Quality, thereby leaving such Beautiful Women to fend for themselves. In the same breath, we can say this is the independence that some women demanded or yelled and screamed for has come to pass, and it's an extremely ugly reality they created for themselves in the end. However, in totality it’s a Lose Lose scenario for Humanity as a whole.
Thank you for your Time once again.
God Bless Everyone
OMNIGod